His name was Michael and he was looking up at something outside of the frame of the picture and his grinning white teeth were visible through the darkness of his beard. She scrolled down.
Body type: Athletic.
Occupation: Field of Education.
Political leanings: I’ll tell you once I know you.
Well, that wasn’t very helpful. She opened the messenger function, clicked on the text box and watched the cursor blink on and off under the message he had sent:
Hey, you seem like a nice person. It’s hard to find good people nowadays. Meet up to see if you feel the same?
This seemed very quick. She had read that you were supposed to have four distinct exchanges before planning to meet. She looked over the top of her monitor at the counter with the spider plant spilling over it and the bank of computers beyond.
Sure, why not? Name the place and the time.
She was taking a risk. She could now be described as a “risk-taker.”
At the coffee shop Michael was indeed athletic, bearded, and seemed like a nice person.
“Why didn’t you put your political leanings up? Were you afraid to drive people away?”
He ran his hand thoughtfully through his beard.
“I guess I just think that politics divides people. You put something like that up and then people put you in a box.”
“But, wouldn’t that happen anyway, I mean, wouldn’t your date put you in a box once you told them on a date?”
“Yes, but then you can engage in a conversaaation.”
“Ah,” she said.
Luckily, their political views were aligned, and didn’t necessitate much conversaaation, except to gripe and commiserate about the current state of things.
They spent more time on each other’s occupations, his as a special ed teacher (he was currently working to get his hours so he could apply for licensure), which he was doing to affect positive change, since his parents had, in his words, “done enough damage to the world through all their corporate racketeering.”
She told him about her work as an administrative assistant in charge of a student success center. It was her job to put together a variety of events for the director of the center for student success, and to follow up with student concerns, and to make sure that the director’s correspondences and scheduling needs were all attended to. She liked the work. It was, for the most part, precise. “After all, I like to be organized. Clarity and cleanliness are important to me.”
“Yes, cleanliness,” he said, though there was something dirty in his voice, as if he was imagining her body.
She changed the subject back to his work and learned how he had sat with one boy for over an hour and had tried to get him to thread beads onto a string to work on fine motor skills. It had not been very successful, and the boy had again and again covered his hand in drool.
“By the end though, we had three beads on that string, and I have to tell you, it just, it felt like the biggest accomplishment of my life. It was amazing. How relative success is, right?”
At the end of their date, they hugged, but did not kiss, and because it was the afternoon, Diana still went to her tennis lesson, where she worked with her coach on her backhand swing. Her mother had told her it was important to maintain healthy habits.
When she got home that evening, she put together a survey and sent Michael the link. The questions were as follows:
1. How attractive did you find your date? Rate 1-10:
2. How compelling did you find the conversation? Rate 1-10: